Discover The Exact Words To Say That Stop Fights,
Arguments and Disagreements...Pull Your Partner Closer AND Keep Your Love (and the Spark) Alive Forever...
Arguments and Disagreements...Pull Your Partner Closer AND Keep Your Love (and the Spark) Alive Forever...
Take THIS quick relationship quiz ...
(Your answers will reveal a lot about you and your relationship...)
Here are your questions... (take a moment and answer them now)
- Have you ever been in a relationship situation where you've said the WRONG thing to someone and you wished you could have immediately taken back what you said because of all the problems it caused?
- Have you ever just not known what to say to someone to make a situation work out and you just kept quiet because you didn't want to cause problems by saying the wrong thing or saying something that could be taken the wrong way?
- Have you ever wished that you knew what to say to your partner or spouse before you said something that would cause the two of you to become disconnected or even more distant?
- Have you ever struggled to find the right words to say to your partner to explain yourself and your feelings?
- Have you ever caused a fight with your partner, spouse or lover and you don't even know how?
And finally...
- Have you ever wanted to feel more understood by the people closest to you in your life?
If you answered YES to any of the above questions, you are not alone.
Being able to say the right words in the right way is something everyone wants but is not always easy.
Being able to use the right words at the right time so you can speak the truth openly and honestly in a relationship, along with wanting to feel heard, understood and appreciated are some of the biggest challenges that most people face in relationships today.
Saying the wrong thing to someone (sometimes even the smallest thing) can absolutely wreck a relationship.
This is why using what we call "magic words" is so important in creating a close, connected, vital and alive relationship.
What Are "Magic Relationship Words" and How Can You Use
Them In Your Communication To Create Closer Connections
With Your Partner, Spouse or Lover?
Them In Your Communication To Create Closer Connections
With Your Partner, Spouse or Lover?
If you're not getting the love, passion, intimacy or depth of connection that you want--the biggest reason is because of the words you use and how you use them when you communicate with your partner, spouse or lover.
Use the wrong words in the wrong way and what you get is relationship disaster.
Use the right words in the right way and it's almost like waving a magic wand because what you get is "magic."
That's why we call these words "magic" because when you use them they can work like "magic" to open both you and your partner's hearts, create more love, more connection, more intimacy and more of whatever you want in your relationship.
These words can make the difference between whether you feel loved, cared for and connected or you feel alone, separated, distant and disconnected from your partner, mate or lover.
How We Learned to Use "Magic Words" In Our
Relationship and How You Can Too...
Relationship and How You Can Too...
Long before we started writing books, doing seminars, creating programs and working with people, like you in our Relationship Breakthrough coaching practice--and prior to our relationship together--we had both come out of long-term marriages.
Susie was married to someone else for 30 years and Otto's prior marriage lasted 15 years.
During that time and in those previous relationships, we both made every conceivable communication mistake you could make.
Saying the wrong thing at the wrong times and doing a poor job of communicating certainly wasn't the only reason those marriages didn't last but putting our "foot in our mouths," using the wrong words or saying the wrong thing to our partners certainly contributed to those relationships ending.
Otto specifically remembers on quite a few occasions, late at night sitting in the basement of the apartment he lived in with his ex, trying to figure out the right words to say to get her to tell him what she was thinking, feeling and why she seemed so distant to him.
In Susie's situation--she and her first husband seemed to just go along living separate lives together until it was clear that the relationship was over.
Communication was civil but frustrating. Susie can recall many occasions where she felt like she was emotionally "clawing" at him so he'd reveal what he was feeling--but never to her satisfaction.
Fast forward several years later after those marriages ended and we got together...
During the first part of our relationship, our bond and connection was so strong and it felt so good being together that we essentially ignored the fact that we had lousy communication skills when it came to intimate relationships.
We were relying on pure magnetism and attraction to make our relationship work.
In hindsight, we have to admit this part of our lives was pretty exciting.
We'd work all day and make love all night--and like most people in relationships, we figured out that we couldn't do this forever.
When the "honeymoon" period of our relationship started coming to a close, we realized that it was going to require more than just magnetism and attraction if we were going to make it for the long-haul.
We somehow intuitively knew that if we didn't learn the secrets to communicating with each other, even though our connection and attraction was strong, we probably wouldn't make it either.
We knew we had to do something and that's when we started studying everything we could get our hands on about relationships.
We read books, listened to audio programs, attended seminars, got coaching, and found mentors--and as a result of our desire to keep our relationship strong, healthy, vibrant, alive and connected...we learned thousands of relationship ideas and started practicing them.
One of the things we figured out as a result of all this studying and really digging deep into our relationships was--
The words we use when we talk to one another matter.
In fact, another thing we discovered was when we felt really close and connected, supported, appreciated, loved and important-- there were certain things we would say to each other (in certain ways we might add) that would help us feel even more connected. So we started doing more of it.
We started noticing these words that worked for us so well and then we started using them more intentionally and our relationship began to blossom and grow even more.
We learned that if you use the right words in the right way, you'll want to let your old ways of communicating just fade away because this changes everything in your relationship for the better.
It wasn't all that long ago that we were thinking about these words we use that work so well for us in our relationship that we decided to compile a list of them and offer the list to you and anyone else who wants them and show you how to best use them.
Before we give you an example of one of these "magic words" and show you how to use it in your relationship, there's something really important we want you to know...
Why Haven't You Heard of These "Magic Words" Before Now
and Why Do Most People Have Such A Hard time Communicating
and Connecting With Each Other?
and Why Do Most People Have Such A Hard time Communicating
and Connecting With Each Other?
It's not your fault that you don't always know the right words to say to your partner spouse or lover...
After all, how could it be?
How could you be expected to know these words that could really connect the two of you?
You couldn't.
No one ever taught them to you and the big reason is simply that most people don't know them.
After all-- wouldn't it have been great if when you were in grade school learning to read and write that your teachers also taught you the best words to say and how to communicate to create the best possible relationships?
Wouldn't it also have been great if your parents or your early childhood caregivers would have taught you the secrets of communication and the best words to use to communicate with love and kindness and the best words to say to the people in your life to really connect with them at a heart and soul level?
The fact is...your teachers in school didn't teach you these things because they didn't know and your parents didn't know either because nobody taught them.
It's so painful not knowing the right words to say to your partner and not knowing what to do in your relationship to create what you want--a closer relationship with more love, connection and intimacy.
In order to help you create this, we want to share some of these "magic relationship words" with you right now so you can begin using them in your relationship or marriage immediately.
And please make sure that you don't take these words lightly.
There really is "magic" and power in these words.
We've tested them over and over in a real world laboratory we call our own relationship.
We know these words work in our relationship and life, as well as in the lives of our Relationship Breakthrough Coaching clients, and they can work for you too.
It's not your fault that you don't always know the right words to say to your partner spouse or lover...
After all, how could it be?
How could you be expected to know these words that could really connect the two of you?
You couldn't.
No one ever taught them to you and the big reason is simply that most people don't know them.
After all-- wouldn't it have been great if when you were in grade school learning to read and write that your teachers also taught you the best words to say and how to communicate to create the best possible relationships?
Wouldn't it also have been great if your parents or your early childhood caregivers would have taught you the secrets of communication and the best words to use to communicate with love and kindness and the best words to say to the people in your life to really connect with them at a heart and soul level?
The fact is...your teachers in school didn't teach you these things because they didn't know and your parents didn't know either because nobody taught them.
It's so painful not knowing the right words to say to your partner and not knowing what to do in your relationship to create what you want--a closer relationship with more love, connection and intimacy.
In order to help you create this, we want to share some of these "magic relationship words" with you right now so you can begin using them in your relationship or marriage immediately.
And please make sure that you don't take these words lightly.
There really is "magic" and power in these words.
We've tested them over and over in a real world laboratory we call our own relationship.
We know these words work in our relationship and life, as well as in the lives of our Relationship Breakthrough Coaching clients, and they can work for you too.
It's not your fault that you don't always know the right words to say to your partner spouse or lover...
After all, how could it be?
How could you be expected to know these words that could really connect the two of you?
You couldn't.
No one ever taught them to you and the big reason is simply that most people don't know them.
After all-- wouldn't it have been great if when you were in grade school learning to read and write that your teachers also taught you the best words to say and how to communicate to create the best possible relationships?
Wouldn't it also have been great if your parents or your early childhood caregivers would have taught you the secrets of communication and the best words to use to communicate with love and kindness and the best words to say to the people in your life to really connect with them at a heart and soul level?
The fact is...your teachers in school didn't teach you these things because they didn't know and your parents didn't know either because nobody taught them.
It's so painful not knowing the right words to say to your partner and not knowing what to do in your relationship to create what you want--a closer relationship with more love, connection and intimacy.
In order to help you create this, we want to share some of these "magic relationship words" with you right now so you can begin using them in your relationship or marriage immediately.
And please make sure that you don't take these words lightly.
There really is "magic" and power in these words.
We've tested them over and over in a real world laboratory we call our own relationship.
We know these words work in our relationship and life, as well as in the lives of our Relationship Breakthrough Coaching clients, and they can work for you too.
"8 Relationship-Transforming Words"
Sometimes we're so close to some of the relationship ideas we've learned and talk about that we forget how powerful and effective they can be in helping you create more love and closer connections with your partner, spouse or lover.
A friend of ours reminded us of this during an interview he was doing with us when he called this sentence..."8 relationship- transforming words."
He went on to say that "if you learn these 8 simple words contained in this one single sentence, you will automatically begin ending your relationship conflicts today and start experiencing more love and harmony in all areas of your life."
They're words you will use again and again to gracefully and automatically enable you to open a heartfelt dialogue any time you feel the need to speak your truth.
Here are the 8 words and how you can use them in your relationship and life...
"Because this relationship is so important to me, __________."
These 8 relationship-transforming words can be a communication lead-in that promotes openness or they can also help soften and shift a difficult, tense moment into one where you two move closer together despite the topic.
Let's face it.
Who doesn't want to hear a partner re-affirm that your relationship is important?
These words are so potentially transformational because the one speaking them is clearly indicating that his or her intention is to better what you have together because it is so worthwhile.
After saying this phrase, you can make a request, ask for clarification or share something that you've discovered about yourself. While the crux of your statement might not be easy for your partner to hear, when it's coupled with these 8 relationship-transforming words, there can be a sense of ease and possibility imbued in the situation.
Here's a quick story and an example of these "Magic Relationship Words" in action...
Shirley is worried about her partner Jay’s drinking.
It seems to Shirley that Jay turns to alcohol whenever he gets stressed out or feels upset about something.
This is not a healthy habit, but it’s even worse because just about every time Jay drinks, the two of them get into a huge fight.
They don’t normally argue so Shirley often knows when Jay’s been drinking because he starts yelling at her about even minor issues. This usually sparks Shirley’s anger and she begins yelling along with him.
She wants to talk with Jay about his drinking and ask him to consider seeing an abuse counselor but is fearful that it will turn into another argument.
Shirley reads some websites that recommend ways of talking with your partner about his or her alcohol abuse and decides that it’s time to really be honest with Jay.
Starting her words to him with the phrase “Because our relationship is so important to me…” sets the framework for his being open to what else she has to say and she continues on by sharing with Jay how she feels when he drinks and arguments erupt between them–and that she believes it’s time for him to get help.
Can one single phrase change the entire course of your relationships?
The answer is unequivocally YES!
Especially if you've been experiencing any conflict...
Especially if you want to AVOID future conflict...
Especially if you want to learn how to live in peace and harmony with the people who are most important to you...
We can't encourage you enough to memorize and use that one simple sentence for the sake of yourself and for your loved ones right now.
And there's more...
We have over 100 more words, phrases and sentence-starters (just as powerful as this one) that we'd also like to share with you.
You'll find these additional "magic words" in our new book and audio program called "Magic Relationship Words" that you can download right now...
Download The "Magic Relationship Words"
Book and Audio Program Now and
Here's What You'll Get...
Book and Audio Program Now and
Here's What You'll Get...
Magic Relationship Words Ebook
“Magic Relationship Words instantly downloadable ebook with over 100 magic words, phrases and sentence starters that will help you say it right every single time with your spouse or partner…
Magic Relationship Words That Build Trust Audios
2 instantly downloadable audios about how to use ONLY the words that build trust in your relationship or marriage.
We've organized this "Magic Relationship Words" book from our program into three parts:
In part 1, the introduction, we give you the "Magic Words Mindset" which is the mindset from which you want to communicate everything to your partner and any other important person in your life.
This is critical. After all, if you're going learn the right words to say, you're going to want to make sure you know how to say them.
That's what we do next--we give you the exact tonality, body language and attitudes you're going to need to know to make sure all the other parts of you are congruent with the new words you're going to be using.
Next, you'll get 83 chapters that are either one or two pages that each focus on teaching you one word, phrase or sentence-starter.
Each of these chapters are written in the same short, consistent format and has three distinct parts--
1. First, in bold print, we give you the magic word, phrase or sentence.
2. Next, we explain or share why we think this particular word, sentence or phrase can work like "magic" for you in your relationship and finally...
3. In each chapter, we give you an example of these words in action. These examples provide a context for how someone else has used these words to create more closeness and connection in his or her relationship and life so you can get an idea about how you might apply them to your situation.
Because this is a downloadable book, you'll get access to this book instantly and you can either read it from your computer screen or you can choose to print it out and read it away from your computer.
You'll love the short chapter format "Magic Relationship Words" because it makes it easy to read it from cover to cover or just open the book each day and choose one of the magic words at random to practice during that day. The key is to try them out and practice them.
As you go through this information, you will get the most out of it if you ask yourself this question-"How can I use these words or these ideas in my life?"
You might even want to take out a notebook and begin making notes about how you could use these words to communicate and connect more deeply with the important people in your life.
This way, you're not just reading a book; you're actively working through it. This can make a big difference in how well you are able to integrate these ideas into your communication and life.
When you order the "Magic Relationship Words" book and audio program, you'll also get instant access to the following downloadable mp3 audio recordings that are a part of the package...
These two mp3 audios are about 90 minutes total and are NOT recordings of us reading the "Magic Relationship Words" book.
These recordings are additional info that expands on what we teach in the main book and on these two audio recordings we focus on the "magic words" that build and rebuild trust in a relationship or marriage--and that's something we could all use more of.
The first mp3 audio you get is about 60 minutes and is the recording from the actual "Magic Relationship Words That Build or Rebuild Trust" teleseminar and webcast.
We give you not only specific words and phrases to say to your partner but also words and phrases to say to yourself to help you change your internal "self-talk" to get you in the "right" mindset to communicate with your partner.
The second mp3 audio you get is about 30 minutes and is the recording of us (Susie & Otto) answering some specific questions that were sent to us about these "magic words" that build trust.
Here's a partial list of what you'll learn when you get the "Magic Relationship Words" book and audio program...
- The biggest communication mistake couples make that leads to a relationship ending, separation or divorce and the best words to say to make sure you and your partner stay together
- The communication mindset you must adopt if want more openness, love and understanding between you and your partner
- 8 things to pay attention to in order to make sure your words match your desired outcome
- How to start a conversation in a way that shows your partner you're open to listening and talking about solutions to problems or challenges rather than blaming and criticizing--doing this will feel so much better to both you and your partner
- Words you can say that insert a sense of ease into tense times and actually help you and your mate move closer together
- The best words to say and use when you want or need to set boundaries or make requests
- A quick and easy way to identify your feelings and what you want (It will make a dramatic difference in the quality of your relationship when you can get clear about what you want or what's going on inside of you)
- Wonderful tools to communicate what's true for you about situations that may be difficult or may need clarification
- A great way to get someone to listen to you as you speak to them
- 8 relationship-transforming words that can help soften and shift a difficult, tense moment into one where the two of you move closer together despite the topic...when you are able to do this, you will develop the attitude that the two of you can overcome anything together
- One word you shouldn't say to your partner (or anyone else) when you are making a request of them and the one word you should say instead
- A breakthrough question you can use to start out a conversation with your partner that shows without a doubt that you value their opinion--when you ask this with curiosity and an open heart, your partner can't help but shift too and begin to value your opinion more as well
- How to make words of appreciation more meaningful when you express them to your mate, partner or spouse
- 4 "magic words" to say to your partner when you may be tempted to lash out at them when you feel frustrated, afraid, angry, confused or upset--using these 4 words will not only draw the two of you closer together but make feel more loved, supported and appreciated by your partner
- 6 reassuring words that reminds you to "stay open" even if what you're seeing from your partner feels scary or uncomfortable
- A sentence you can learn quickly and easily to get your partner to clear his or her mind and pay full attention to what you have to say
- A new phrase you can use to say how you feel that also encourages a sense of openness
- A powerful thing to say if your relationship has run "off course" and you want to steer it back where you want it
- The one thing you should always ask someone before you offer any kind of advice--this makes sure you are honoring them and you're also not doing something they don't want
- A great question you can ask to make sure you understand what your partner means when they say something--this promotes better understandings and a closer connection
- How to ask someone to just "listen" to you when you have something important to say--this instantly makes you feel more understood, appreciated and valued
- A good question to ask your partner if you want to understand how they are feeling about something--when you ask this question, it eliminates confusion and guessing about how they feel
- A simple sentence-starter that instantly gives you a way to shift negative energy that could be holding you and your partner back from creating more love and connection
- An easy-to-say way to share with your partner (or anyone) how you'd like your communication to be
- How to bring up subjects that you or your partner may have felt defensive about in the past and NOT cause a fight or upset
- A perfect way you can tell someone about your needs and have them want to help you or do what you ask
- A heart-opening question you can ask of your partner when he or she seems closed down or having a difficult time--this one question will help you understand them and what they're feeling or going through as well as have both of you feel more love and a deeper connection
- How to bring up a "negative" topic or something difficult to talk about
- Words you can use that helps you and your partner become more trustable to each other
- The best words to respond with when someone (especially your intimate partner) criticizes you or says something that hurts your feelings
- A magic phrase you can not only say to put a positive spin on something negative but it is something you can also use to look to the future with excitement
- How to open up conversations to talk about times you were or are angry with someone--when you use these words and start conversations like these, the two of you can stay open even in the midst of anger or an upset
- Words you can say to tell your partner about something that's really important to you--even if they don't agree with you
- Words you can use to make requests in a clear way that don't cause more struggle, conflict or problems
- Words you can use to let your partner know what you need in a particular moment--this one thing will stop guesswork and help you get your needs met because your partner will know them when you communicate them in this way
- Words, phrases and sentences you can immediately start using that promote an attitude of kindness, openness, caring and love in your relationship (even in the midst of conflict or chaos)
- And much more...
How to tell if this "Magic Relationship Words"
book and audio program is for you...
book and audio program is for you...
If you or your partner have any challenges at all in communicating your thoughts, feelings or emotions to each other, then this "Magic Relationship Words" book and audio program is for you.
If you'd like to know the exact words and phrases to say to your partner, spouse or lover so that you never stumble over finding the right words to say to them, then this book and audio program is for you.
If you would like to know how to communicate your needs to your partner and be able to understand their needs without conflict, then this book and audio program is for you.
If you've ever wished you had the right words to say at any time (now or in the past) to be able to speak your truth and be honest and authentic without holding back --then this is for you.
If you are willing to invest a little bit of time, effort and energy into learning some new skills, ideas and techniques that will dramatically improve the quality of your communication and instantly create breakthroughs in your relationship or marriage -- then this program is for you.
If you have even an ounce of desire to heal the communication issues and challenges that come up for you in your relationship or marriage, we sincerely believe this program can change your life.
On the other hand, if you aren't willing at this point to spend another second of your time on this relationship or your partner...
or
...you are unwilling to give it one more try, then you should probably pass on this info and not bother downloading it.
This program is for people who want more love and a better relationship and are willing to try some new ways of talking to and communicating with your partner in order to get it.
What Do You Want For Your Relationships?
If you've read this far on this web page, we're thinking that you're someone who really is interested in more from your relationships than you have right now and you're willing to be open to some new ideas to create something better.
Are we right?
We think so and if you're finally ready to start using these "Magic Relationship Words" we've been talking about and start communicating to connect, then here's what you're going to want to do...
Download our complete "Magic Relationship Words" program now and start going through the information right away.
This book and audio program gives you over 100 amazing words, phrases and sentence-starters that will help you say it right every time when you are communicating in your most important relationships.
This is the ONLY program of its kind where you get the exact words and phrases to say--along with clear instructions on how to best say them.
This will be like having us whispering in your ear and coaching you on the right things to say when it counts the most.
Now is the perfect time to take advantage of the fact that we've spent hours, days and weeks putting together the best collection of "magic words" you'll find anywhere along with easy instructions on how to use them and apply them in your relationship and life.
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Bonus #1 -- "21 Words, Phrases and Sentences to NEVER Say To Your Partner, Spouse or Lover"-- When you get our "Magic Relationship Words" book and audio program, we're giving you over 100 words, phrases and sentence-starters to say to your partner to make your communication really flow and feel effortless and help you make sure you say the right words every time.
Here, with this special downloadable bonus in .pdf format... we're giving you a list of 21 of our top words and things to NOT say to your partner if you want to have a close and connected relationship filled with love, respect and kindness.
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Read what others have to say about our other books, audios, programs and work...
- James
"Magic Relationship Words...conveys the feeling that the message is coming from a loving place"...
"There's no way to express how grateful I am that I found your assistance in my recently discovered need to become reconnected with my wife, Mary. Things have a way of happening to us that we cannot believe would ever be happening.
"My discovery came as a result of a medical situation for Mary that caused a momentary thought that I might not have her in my life tomorrow. That thought triggered a change in my entire outlook on our relationship.
"Until that moment, the word relationship had very little import to me. Then with the new outlook in my heart, valuable resources like your book and news letters began to come into my view and I have been digesting and studying more than I have since my school years.
"I worried for a bit that Mary might think I had gone off the deep end since my attention to her and our "relationship" had made such an abrupt change
( Reverse ! ). Having read about the mistakes we men make, ( I responded "oh no" to all ten ), I had to wonder how it is that Mary still loves me.
"The "Magic Relationship Words" are a totally awesome collection of thoughtful and logical words to wrap a thought into that conveys the feeling that the message is coming from a loving place.
"I can't report ( yet ) that I've spoken more than the one that has had the most profound effect on my thinking and in reducing Mary's apprehension about my change in attitude. ( "This relationship is so important to me _______ ")
Just to be certain that my new focus on our relationship wasn't causing Mary any worries about my mental health, I asked her best friend if Mary had mentioned anything about my recent relationship actions with her. The friend responded, "Yes !", with a smile. Then I asked her if Mary was pleased.... and got another "Yes !".
"I told Mary about the two question conversation an hour later after we we alone again and expressed to her how very happy and grateful that it had made me to know that she was accepting that my "change" is a genuine love based intention.
"Thank you both for the gifts you have shared to help our relationship. Mary and I have had a "good" 41 year marriage, and now I know we will have a GREAT marriage everyday from here on."
- Name Withheld on Request"Thank you from the bottom of my heart"...
"During this Thanksgiving week, I simply want to thank you from the bottom of my heart.
"I'm discovering how valuable these magic words are for any relationship (above and beyond the primary relationship)- and I'm handling a highly sensitive family trauma - which needs all the love, patience and wisdom in the world to work-through - and I'm adapting the magic words according to need to help support this delicate, difficult navigation.
"I love how the workbook creates a sense of emotional space and reflection literally by including space for exercises - in itself helping to decompress 'tightness' and 'fear' and open-up heartfelt, authentic connection even where extremely deep differences, perceptions and experiences may exist.
"Susie and Otto, thanks for creating and sharing this - part of your invaluable gift of service to the path of truly authentic human relating."
- Sabrina"[Magic Words] helped me think about how my words and attitudes could be perceived or misconstrued..."
"I have really enjoyed not only the Magic Relationship Words book, but also the mini course. The series and book helped me think about how my words and attitudes could be perceived or misconstrued by my partner, and how to more effectively communicate how I'm feeling or what I'm thinking without making the situation worse.
"I'm generally considered to be a kind, considerate person but this is a new relationship and I'm still learning his triggers and communication style.
"Your products really helped me put myself in his shoes in a more productive way. Thanks a lot for the help!
- Leslie"This material is terrific..."
"I downloaded your 'Magic Words' ebook and got two audios a couple days ago. Honestly, this material is terrific. I'm 60 yrs old and have been single for 27 years. I've worked on myself a lot but now that I finally have a really good man, I've noticed my inner thinking and some outer reactions that really have nothing to do with him. Your material is really helping me clarify and take responsibility for my own 'stuff' so I won't destroy what we are building. Thank you so much for what you do! You do it very well, too.
- Rudy M."I highly recommend this [Magic Words]..."
"I downloaded it In the morning and by lunch I was using it on a call with a very dear friend. I highly recommend this."
- Name Withheld by RequestHe's noticed a huge difference in the response he gets out of the people he's talking to...
"Just writing to give some feed back about your books and the information and advice I've taken out of them so far from what I've read.
"I'm nearly 21 yrs of age and at different stages of my life have struggled to communicate with people and I've always wondered why even when I've had the best intentions when talking to people, I've upset them or made things worse.
"After reading the books what not to say it came clear that I use a lot of the language that you recommend not to use and since I've started to make a real effort to how I talk to people and how I express myself, I've noticed a huge difference in the response I get out of the people I'm talking to.
"I haven't read everything but I'm slowly getting through a lot of it and I personally feel it's great stuff. I truly think if I make a real effort in the future with putting what I learn into action, I believe it will help me with my relationships between the every day people I mix with.
"Thanks guys. It's great to learn new things and I'm a great believer of having an open mind and trying new things to always be a better person.
"You guys have helped me a great deal so far and I have enjoyed what I have read so far."
- Name Withheld by Request"If I had had Magic Words, we would not have separated..."
"I first came across your "stuff" so to speak from a link by Bob Grant. My long distance boyfriend just broke up with me and I had ordered his ebook on getting a man back into your life and the one on long distance relationships. I also had read the book on the 5 Languages of Love referenced in Bob's ebook.
"I went over and over working on waiting. I was doing some spiritual cleaning and listening to Caroline Myss which some people find her rude, but she went over very well with me.
"I also studied your book on relationship words. Let me tell, if I had had all of this, we would not have separated.
"In preparation, I looked over all of the material and actually devised a plan of conversation. You see Bob says to keep the conversation short, but I also know with my particular the conversation would have to have some substance and that I would have only 1 chance to get this guy to keep talking to me.
"Even in the middle of the conversation, he made a reference that the breakup was permanent.
"I went over your relationship words, and basically with all of the above knowledge, I typed out a conversation, even going over 1 very bad incident and told him what I should have said and how we could have devised a plan to synergistically work out a solution.
"It really hit him like a ton of bricks! (but in the right way). The phrase I used was the "I noticed that XXX seems to still be bothering you. How can I help you with that?"
"I ended with telling him that when he was having trouble with a certain situation, in fact, I realized that we were actually evolving and going forward as a couple, and not becoming just friends.
"I told him I needed to give him encouraging words, part of his love language. So I pulled out your most perfect sentence and said to him, this is what I should have said and I will say it now:
"I am going to love you anyway.
"Then I paused and just waited. After a bit he told me I had given him much to think about. My own intuition told me to end with this, because his heart would be doing a 180. He said he had to end off, probably since it was quite a lot of emotion, positive though.
"He also said he would call me again. I think he is mulling things over.
"It was a combination of everything I mentioned above, and still deviating from Bob's advice and having the guts to do it.
"I'll keep studying those words so I will be ready when he calls back and for use in regular relationships too.