"Magic Relationship Words That Make Sure You Say It Right Every
Time In Any Situation With Your Partner, Spouse or Lover-- No More Conflicts That Last
Forever, Stonewalling or Nasty Arguments..."
You may not know it yet, but...
There are actually certain words you can say in certain ways to your
partner, spouse or lover, that when you say them, you'll not only reduce or eliminate
the possibility of
either one of you shutting down or getting upset -- but using these
words also makes you instantly feel more understood,
more loved and connected than you ever thought possible.
Just continue reading to learn more about these words and how to use
We're Susie and Otto Collins and as you think about your current and
past relationships, we'd like to ask you the following questions...
- Have you ever been in a relationship
situation where you've said the WRONG thing to someone and you wished you
could have immediately taken back what you said because of all the
problems it caused?
- Have you ever just not known what to
say to someone to make a situation work out and you just kept quiet
because you didn't want to cause problems by saying the wrong thing or
saying something that could be taken the wrong way?
- Have you ever wished that you knew what
to say to your partner or spouse before you said something that would
cause the two of you to become disconnected or even more distant?
- Have you ever struggled to find the right
words to say to your partner to explain yourself and your feelings?
- Have you ever caused a fight with
your partner, spouse or lover and you don't even know how?
- Have you ever wanted to feel more understood by the people closest to
you in your life?
If you answered YES to any of the above questions, you are not alone.
Being able to say the right words in the right way is something everyone
wants but is not always easy.
Being able to use the right words at the right time so you can speak the truth openly and honestly in a relationship,
along with wanting to feel heard, understood and appreciated are some of the biggest challenges
that most people face in relationships today.
Saying the wrong thing to someone (sometimes even the smallest thing)
can absolutely wreck a relationship.
This is why using "magic words" is
so important in creating a close, connected, vital and alive
What Are "Magic
Relationship Words" and How Can You Use
Them In Your Communication To Create Closer Connections
With Your Partner, Spouse or Lover?
If you're not getting the love,
passion, intimacy or depth of connection that you want--the biggest
reason is because of the words you use and
how you use them when you communicate with your partner, spouse or
Use the wrong words in the wrong way and what you get is relationship
Use the right words in the right way and what you get is "magic."
We call these words "magic" because when you use them they can work like
"magic" to open both you and your partner's hearts, create more love, more
connection, more intimacy and more of whatever you want in your
These words can make the
difference between whether you feel loved, cared for and connected or
you feel alone, separated, distant and disconnected from your partner,
mate or lover.
How We Learned
to Use "Magic Words" In Our
Relationship and How You Can Too...
Long before we started writing
books, doing seminars, creating programs and working with people, like
you in our Relationship Breakthrough coaching practice--and prior to our relationship together--we had both come out of
Susie was married to someone else
for 30 years and Otto's prior marriage lasted 15 years.
During that time and in those
previous relationships, we both made every conceivable communication
mistake you could make.
Saying the wrong thing at the
wrong times and doing a poor job of communicating certainly wasn't the
only reason those marriages didn't last but putting our "foot in our
mouths," using the wrong words or saying the wrong thing to our partners
certainly contributed to those relationships ending.
Otto specifically remembers on
quite a few occasions, late at night sitting in the basement of the
apartment he lived in with his ex, trying to figure out the right words
to say to get her to tell him what she was thinking, feeling and why she
seemed so distant to him.
In Susie's situation--she and her
first husband seemed to just go along living separate lives together
until it was clear that the relationship was over.
Communication was civil but
frustrating. Susie can recall many occasions where she felt like she was
emotionally "clawing" at him so he'd reveal what he was feeling--but
never to her satisfaction.
Fast forward several years later
after those marriages ended and we got together...
During the first part of our
relationship, our bond and connection was so strong and it felt so good
being together that we essentially ignored the fact that we had lousy
communication skills when it came to intimate relationships.
We were relying on pure magnetism
and attraction to make our relationship work.
In hindsight, we have to admit
this part of our lives was pretty exciting.
We'd work all day and make love
all night--and like most people in relationships, we figured out that we
couldn't do this forever.
When the "honeymoon" period of our
relationship started coming to a close, we realized that it was going to
require more than just magnetism and attraction if we were going to make
it for the long-haul.
We somehow intuitively knew that
if we didn't learn the secrets to communicating with each other, even
though our connection and attraction was strong, we probably wouldn't
make it either.
We knew we had to do something and
that's when we started studying everything we could get our hands on
We read books, listened to audio
programs, attended seminars, got coaching, and found mentors--and as a
result of our desire to keep our relationship strong, healthy, vibrant,
alive and connected...we learned thousands of relationship ideas and
started practicing them.
One of the things we figured out
as a result of all this studying and really digging deep into our
The words we use when we talk to
one another matter.
In fact, another thing we
discovered was when we felt really close and connected,
supported, appreciated, loved and important-- there were certain things
we would say to each other (in certain ways we might add) that would
help us feel even more connected. So we started doing more of it.
We started noticing these words that worked for us so well and then we
started using them more intentionally and our relationship began
to blossom and grow even more.
We learned that if you use the
right words in the right way, you'll want to let your old ways of
communicating just fade away because this changes everything in your
relationship for the better.
It wasn't all that long ago that
we were thinking about these words we use that work so well for us in
our relationship that we decided to compile a list of them and offer the
list to you and anyone else who wants them and show you how to best
Before we give you an example of one of these "magic words" and show you
how to use it in your relationship, there's something really important
we want you to know...
Why Haven't You
Heard of These "Magic Words" Before Now
and Why Do Most People Have Such A Hard time Communicating
and Connecting With Each Other?
It's not your fault that you don't always know the
right words to say to your partner spouse or lover...
After all, how could it be?
How could you be expected to know these
words that could really connect the two of you?
No one ever taught them to you and the big reason is simply that
most people don't know them.
After all-- wouldn't it have been
great if when you were in grade school learning to read and write that
your teachers also taught you the best words to say and how to
communicate to create the best possible relationships?
Wouldn't it also have been great
if your parents or your early childhood caregivers would have taught you
the secrets of communication and the best words to use to communicate
with love and kindness and the best words to say to the people in your
life to really connect with them at a heart and soul level?
The fact is...your teachers in
school didn't teach you these things because they didn't know and your
parents didn't know either because nobody taught them.
It's so painful not knowing the
right words to say to your partner and not knowing what to do in your
relationship to create what you want--a closer relationship with more
love, connection and intimacy.
In order to help you create this, we want to share some of these "magic relationship words" with you right
now so you can begin using them in your relationship or marriage
And please make sure that you don't take these words lightly.
There really is "magic" and power in these words.
We've tested them over and over in a real world laboratory we call our
We know these words work in our relationship and life, as well as in the
lives of our Relationship Breakthrough Coaching clients, and they can work for you too.
"8 Relationship-Transforming Words"
Sometimes we're so close to some
of the relationship ideas we've learned and talk about that we forget
how powerful and effective they can be in helping you create more love
and closer connections with your partner, spouse or lover.
A friend of ours reminded us of
this during an interview he was doing with us when he called this
sentence..."8 relationship- transforming words."
He went on to say that "if you learn these 8 simple words
contained in this one single sentence, you will automatically begin ending your
relationship conflicts today and start experiencing
more love and harmony in all areas of your
They're words you will use again and again
to gracefully and automatically enable you
to open a heartfelt dialogue any
time you feel the need to speak your truth.
Here are the 8 words and how you
can use them in your relationship and life...
"Because this relationship
is so important to me, __________."
These 8 relationship-transforming
words can be a communication lead-in that promotes openness or they can
also help soften and shift a difficult, tense moment into one where you
two move closer together despite the topic.
Let's face it.
Who doesn't want to hear a partner re-affirm that your relationship is
These words are so potentially transformational because the one speaking
them is clearly indicating that his or her intention is to better what
you have together because it is so worthwhile.
After saying this phrase, you can make a request, ask for clarification
or share something that you've discovered about yourself. While the crux
of your statement might not be easy for your partner to hear, when it's
coupled with these 8 relationship-transforming words, there can be a
sense of ease and possibility imbued in the situation.
Here's a quick story and an example of these "Magic Relationship Words"
Shirley is worried about her partner Jay's drinking.
It seems to Shirley that Jay turns to alcohol whenever he gets stressed
out or feels upset about something.
This is not a healthy habit, but it's even worse because just about
every time Jay drinks, the two of them get into a huge fight.
They don't normally argue so Shirley often knows when Jay's been
drinking because he starts yelling at her about even minor issues. This
usually sparks Shirley's anger and she begins yelling along with him.
She wants to talk with Jay about his drinking and ask him to consider
seeing an abuse counselor but is fearful that it will turn into another
Shirley reads some websites that recommend ways of talking with your
partner about his or her alcohol abuse and decides that it's time to
really be honest with Jay.
Starting her words to him with the phrase "Because our relationship is
so important to me..." sets the framework for his being open to what
else she has to say and she continues on by sharing with Jay how she
feels when he drinks and arguments erupt between them--and that she
believes it's time for him to get help.
Can one single phrase change the
entire course of your relationships?
The answer is unequivocally YES!
Especially if you've been experiencing any conflict...
Especially if you want to AVOID
Especially if you want to learn how
to live in peace and harmony with
the people who are most important
We can't encourage you enough to memorize and use that one simple sentence for the
sake of yourself and for your loved ones right now.
And there's more...
We have over 100 more words,
phrases and sentence-starters (just as powerful as this one) that we'd
also like to share with you.
You'll find these additional
"magic words" in our new book and audio program called "Magic
Relationship Words" that you can download right now...
The "Magic Relationship Words"
Book and Audio Program Now
Here's What You'll Get...
|The "Magic Relationship
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We've organized this "Magic Relationship Words" book from our
program into three parts:
In part 1, the introduction, we give you the "Magic Words Mindset" which
is the mindset from which you want to communicate everything to your
partner and any other important person in your life.
This is critical. After all, if you're going learn the right words to
say, you're going to want to make sure you know how to say them.
That's what we do next--we give you the exact tonality, body language
and attitudes you're going to need to know to make sure all the other
parts of you are congruent with the new words you're going to be using.
Next, you'll get 83 chapters that are either one or two pages that each focus on teaching
you one word, phrase or sentence-starter.
Each of these chapters are written in the same short, consistent format
and has three distinct parts--
1. First, in bold print, we give you the magic word, phrase or sentence.
2. Next, we explain or share why we think this particular word, sentence
or phrase can work like "magic" for you in your relationship and
3. In each chapter, we give you an example of these words in action.
These examples provide a context for how someone else has used these
words to create more closeness and connection in his or her relationship
and life so you can get an idea about how you might apply them to your
Because this is a downloadable book, you'll get access to this book instantly and
you can either read it from your computer screen or you can choose to
print it out and read it away from your computer.
You'll love the short chapter format "Magic Relationship Words" because
it makes it easy to read it from cover to cover or just open the book each day and choose
one of the magic words at random to practice during that day. The key is
to try them out and practice them.
As you go through this information, you will get the most out of it if
you ask yourself this question-"How can I use these words or these ideas
in my life?"
You might even want to take out a notebook and begin making notes about how you could use these words to communicate and
connect more deeply with the important people in your life.
This way, you're not just reading a book; you're actively working
through it. This can make a big difference in how well you are able to
integrate these ideas into your communication and life.
When you order the "Magic
Relationship Words" book and audio program, you'll also get instant access to
the following downloadable mp3 audio recordings that are a part of
"Magic Relationship Words That Build or
Rebuild Trust" audio recordings...
These two mp3 audios are about 90 minutes
total and are NOT recordings of
us reading the "Magic Relationship Words" book.
These recordings are additional info that expands on what we
teach in the main book and on these two audio recordings we focus on the "magic words" that build and rebuild trust in a
relationship or marriage--and that's something we could all use
The first mp3 audio you get is about 60 minutes and is the
recording from the actual "Magic Relationship Words That Build
or Rebuild Trust" teleseminar and webcast.
We give you not only specific words and
phrases to say to your partner but also words and phrases to say
to yourself to help you change your internal "self-talk" to get
you in the "right" mindset to communicate with your partner.
The second mp3 audio you get is about
30 minutes and is the recording of us (Susie & Otto) answering
some specific questions that were sent to us about these "magic
words" that build trust.
Here's a partial list of
what you'll learn when you get the "Magic Relationship Words"
book and audio program...
The biggest communication mistake
couples make that leads to a relationship ending, separation or
divorce and the best words to say to make sure you and your partner
The communication mindset you
must adopt if want more openness, love and understanding between you
and your partner
8 things to pay attention to in
order to make sure your words match your desired outcome
How to start a conversation in a
way that shows your partner you're open to listening and talking
about solutions to problems or challenges rather than blaming and
criticizing--doing this will feel so much better to both you and
Words you can say that insert a
sense of ease into tense times and actually help you and your mate
move closer together
The best words to say and use
when you want or need to set boundaries or make requests
A quick and easy way to identify
your feelings and what you want
(It will make a dramatic
difference in the quality of your relationship when you can get
clear about what you want or what's going on inside of you)
Wonderful tools to
communicate what's true for you about situations that may be
difficult or may need clarification
A great way to get someone to
listen to you as you speak to them
8 relationship-transforming words
that can help soften and shift a difficult, tense moment into one
where the two of you move closer together despite the topic...when
you are able to do this, you will develop the attitude that the
two of you can overcome anything together
One word you shouldn't say to
your partner (or anyone else) when you are making a request of them
and the one word you should say instead
A breakthrough question you can
use to start out a conversation with your partner that shows without
a doubt that you value their opinion--when you ask this with
curiosity and an open heart, your partner can't help but shift too and begin to value your opinion more as well
How to make words of appreciation
more meaningful when you express them to your mate, partner or
4 "magic words" to say to your
partner when you may be tempted to lash out at them when you feel
frustrated, afraid, angry, confused or upset--using these 4 words
will not only draw the two of you closer together but make feel more
loved, supported and appreciated by your partner
6 reassuring words that reminds
you to "stay open" even if what you're seeing from your partner
feels scary or uncomfortable
A sentence you can learn quickly
and easily to get your partner to clear his or her mind and pay full
attention to what you have to say
A new phrase you can use to say
how you feel that also encourages a sense of openness
A powerful thing to say if your
relationship has run "off course" and you want to steer it back
where you want it
The one thing you should always
ask someone before you offer any kind of advice--this makes sure you
are honoring them and you're also not doing something they don't
A great question you can ask to
make sure you understand what your partner means when they say
something--this promotes better understandings and a closer
How to ask someone to just
"listen" to you when you have something important to say--this
instantly makes you feel more understood, appreciated and valued
A good question to ask your
partner if you want to understand how they are feeling about
something--when you ask this question, it eliminates confusion and
guessing about how they feel
A simple sentence-starter that
instantly gives you a way to shift negative energy that could be
holding you and your partner back from creating more love and
An easy-to-say way to share with
your partner (or anyone) how you'd like your communication to be
How to bring up subjects that you
or your partner may have felt defensive about in the past and NOT
cause a fight or upset
A perfect way you can tell
someone about your needs and have them want to help you or do what
A heart-opening question you can
ask of your partner when he or she seems closed down or having a
difficult time--this one question will help you understand them and
what they're feeling or going through as well as have both of you
feel more love and a deeper connection
How to bring up a "negative"
topic or something difficult to talk about
Words you can use that helps you and your partner
become more trustable to each other
The best words to respond with
when someone (especially your intimate partner) criticizes you or
says something that hurts your feelings
A magic phrase you can not only
say to put a positive spin on something negative but it is something
you can also use to look to the future with excitement
How to open up conversations to
talk about times you were or are angry with someone--when you use
these words and start conversations like these, the two of you can
stay open even in the midst of anger or an upset
Words you can say to tell your
partner about something that's really important to you--even if they
don't agree with you
Words you can use to make requests in a
clear way that don't cause more struggle, conflict or problems
Words you can use to let your
partner know what you need in a particular moment--this one thing
will stop guesswork and help you get your needs met because your
partner will know them when you communicate them in this way
Words, phrases and
sentences you can immediately start using that promote an
attitude of kindness, openness, caring and love in your relationship
(even in the midst of conflict or chaos)
And much more...
tell if this "Magic Relationship Words"
book and audio program is for you...
If you or your partner have
any challenges at all in communicating your thoughts, feelings or
emotions to each other, then this "Magic Relationship Words" book and
audio program is for you.
If you'd like to know the exact words and phrases to say to your
partner, spouse or lover so that you never stumble over finding the
right words to say to them, then this book and audio program is for you.
If you would
like to know how to communicate your needs to your partner and be able
to understand their needs without conflict, then this book and audio program is for you.
If you've ever wished you had the right
words to say at any time (now or in the past) to be able to speak
your truth and be honest and authentic without holding back --then this is for you.
If you are willing to invest a little bit of time,
effort and energy into learning some new skills, ideas and techniques
that will dramatically improve the quality of your communication and
instantly create breakthroughs in your relationship or marriage -- then
this program is for you.
If you have even an ounce of desire to heal the
communication issues and challenges that come up for you in your
relationship or marriage, we sincerely believe this program can change
On the other hand, if you aren't willing at this point
to spend another second of your time on this relationship or your
...you are unwilling to give it one more try, then you
should probably pass on this info and not bother downloading it.
This program is for people who want more love and a better relationship
and are willing to try some new ways of talking to and communicating
with your partner in order to get it.
What Do You Want For Your
If you've read this far on this web page, we're thinking
that you're someone who really is interested in more from your
relationships than you have right now and you're willing to be open to
some new ideas to create something better.
Are we right?
We think so and if you're finally ready to start using
these "Magic Relationship Words" we've been talking about and start communicating to connect, then here's what you're
going to want to do...
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This book and audio program gives you over 100 amazing
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This will be like having us whispering in your ear and
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Now is the perfect time to take advantage of the fact that we've spent
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you from the bottom of my heart"...
this Thanksgiving week, I simply want to thank you from the bottom of my heart.
"I'm discovering how valuable these magic words are for any relationship (above
and beyond the primary relationship)- and I'm handling a highly sensitive family
trauma - which needs all the love, patience and wisdom in the world to
work-through - and I'm adapting the magic words according to need to help
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"I love how the workbook creates a sense of emotional space and reflection
literally by including space for exercises - in itself helping to decompress
'tightness' and 'fear' and open-up heartfelt, authentic connection even where
extremely deep differences, perceptions and experiences may exist.
"Susie and Otto, thanks for creating and sharing this - part of your invaluable
gift of service to the path of truly authentic human relating."
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Relationship Words...conveys the feeling that the message is coming from a
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that moment, the word relationship had very little import to me. Then with the
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"If I had had
Magic Words, we would not have separated..."
"I first came across your "stuff" so to speak
from a link by Bob Grant. My long distance boyfriend just broke up
with me and I had ordered his ebook on getting a man back into your
life and the one on long distance relationships. I also had read the
book on the 5 Languages of Love referenced in Bob's ebook.
"I went over and over working on waiting. I was doing some spiritual
cleaning and listening to Caroline Myss which some people find her
rude, but she went over very well with me.
studied your book on relationshipwords. Let me tell, if I had had
all of this, we would not have separated.
"In preparation, I looked over all of the material and actually
devised a plan of conversation. You see Bob says to keep the
conversation short, but I also know with my particular the
conversation would have to have some substance and that I would have
only 1 chance to get this guy to keep talking to me.
in the middle of the conversation, he made a reference
that the breakup was permanent.
"I went over your relationship words, and basically with all of the
above knowledge, I typed out a conversation, even going over 1 very
bad incident and told him what I should have said and how we could
have devised a plan to synergistically work out a solution.
"It really hit him like a ton of bricks! (but in the right way). The
phrase I used was the "I noticed that XXX seems to still be
bothering you. How can I help you with that?"
"I ended with telling him that when he was having trouble with a
certain situation, in fact, I realized that we were actually
evolving and going forward as a couple, and not becoming just
told him I needed to give him encouraging words, part of his love
language. So I pulled out your most perfect sentence and said to
him, this is what I should have said and I will say it now:
"I am going to love you anyway.
"Then I paused and just waited. After a bit he told me I had given
him much to think about. My own intuition told me to end with this,
because his heart would be doing a 180. He said he had to end off,
probably since it was quite a lot of emotion, positive though.
"He also said he would call me again. I think he
is mulling things over.
"It was a combination of everything I mentioned above, and still
deviating from Bob's advice and having the guts to do it.
"I'll keep studying those words so I will be ready when he calls
back and for use in regular relationships too.
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Susie and Otto Offer New Possibilities For Creating The Love We Want in Our
"Susie and Otto Collins are an authentic couple who share from their hearts and,
more importantly, model what it truly takes to create an outstanding
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Co-Author "Conscious Loving" and "The Conscious
Heart" Co-founder of the Hendricks Institute for Conscious Living.
"Honestly, this material is terrific..."
"I downloaded your [Magic Relationship Words] ebook and got two
audios a couple days ago. Honestly, this material is terrific. I'm 60 yrs old
and have been single for 27 years, so there has been a lot of relationship
adventure during that time. I've worked on myself a lot but now that I finally
have a really good man, I've noticed my inner thinking and some outer reactions
that really have nothing to do with him. Your material is really helping me
clarify and take responsibility for my own "stuff" so I won't destroy what we
are building. Thank you so much for what you do! You do it very well, too."
A Practical Guide To Support You In Learning How To Be
Powerful and Authentic In Your Communications...
"They've done it again--
With 'Stop Talking On Eggshells' Susie and Otto have
written and created a practical guide teaching skills to support
learning to love even more. "Stop Talking on Eggshells" is
not only instructive but is a tool to support you in
learning how to be powerful and authentic in your
communications -- the only true way we can negotiate genuine
Leslie Karen Sann
Founder of Living by Design
Taught Me How To Communicate More Effectively With My Mate...
"Stop Talking On Eggshells is an excellent tool that will influence couples
to understand each other's reasoning for 'talking on eggshells' instead of
just shutting down.
Your info taught me to communicate more effectively with my mate in
order to get the love and affection that I need and deserve instead of
just walking away from the relationship. It also showed me what to look
for and how to end the cycle of 'the dance' in a relationship--the
pulling forward and negatively pulling backward in a relationship.
Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to embark on this journey with
you. I know that 'Stop Talking on Eggshells' will be a blessing to
Crystal McDaniel from Little Rock, AR.
This should be required
reading before marriage,
just like a blood test!
the course of this week I have read, then re-read, your newest and in my
opinion, your finest book, 'Stop Talking on Eggshells.' I say that
because it touched a cord I wasn't expecting; at times moving me from chills, to
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personal insight spoke to me. I felt as if I was the focus of your writing
and that you were speaking personally to me; listening, affirming I was not
peculiar, while offering suggestions of hope. Unfortunately, I did not
discover you earlier to save my marriage; however, I am convinced by practice
that your methods do work! My sincerest thank you for showing me I can
have the relationship that I want and deserve!"
"You really hit the mark this time. Your writing was clear,
succinct and flowed beautifully. This should be required reading before
marriage, just like a blood test!"
I have no doubt
that this book
will prove invaluable...
"I was one of the people fortunate enough to
receive an advanced copy of Stop Talking on Eggshells, and I've been
absolutely delighted with what I've read thus far. As a spiritual
and life coach, and also as a busy woman with a large group of friends,
colleagues and family members, I have no doubt that this book will prove
"I love the honesty and thoughtfulness with which this highly practical
information is presented. The writing style is clear, concise and
without frills, yet delivered in a very warm and compassionate manner.
I especially love the questions at the end of each chapter, and find
them extremely helpful in allowing me to become more aware of my
thoughts, feelings and what actions are necessary to assist me in moving
forward fearlessly and with conviction.
"The real-life examples are also very helpful. Many thanks for such
a thorough and wonderful book... the next time I find myself talking on
eggshells, I'll have a great reference guide to gently remind me of how
to get myself out of that pattern! What a reassuring thought,
Kim Loftis, spiritual fulfillment coach and
Burnsville, North Carolina,
Talking On Eggshells"...
to couples the necessary tools and strategies for communicating thoughts,
concerns, and feelings without the fear of backlash."
Dr. Mike Minihan
Practical Help For
Anyone Who Has a Desire To
Improve Their Relationship or Recapture The Magic...
"We are excited about some of Otto and Susie's creative ideas to enhance or
rekindle the spark in a relationship or marriage. Otto and Susie are experts on
the subject of loving relationships. Their ideas are practical help for anyone
who has a desire to improve their relationship or recapture the magic. They are
experienced, compassionate, and caring coaches, who have a wealth of worthwhile
information to help us all improve our most important relationships."
and Gwen S.
Susie and Otto Collins
P.O. Box 14544
Columbus, Ohio 43214